I've been attending the same church regularly for about 3 years now, periodically attending churches for my whole life and can only remember going to 2 sunrise services.
I remember the first time I went to a sunrise service. I was around the age of 12. It was at the first church I remember ever being inside. One that I'm not sure how my mom arrived at but it became her church family. Now that I think of how we ended up at that church, it probably had something to do with a friend of hers inviting my mom there, or maybe she just saw it and decided to go in. But for as long as I could remember we went as often as we could, whenever it was open...
I had been to many Sunday School classes, church events and plays and VBS, and I really thought I understood what it meant to be saved. I knew that I believed that Jesus was the God's Son and that he died on a cross. I had memorized the Scripture, John 3:16, and (to my embarrassment ) to this day its the
only scripture that I can confidently quote and also remember where it is located in the Bible...At a church service, I heard about the Easter Sunrise Service. I thought, "Wow. How that would really take you back to the First Easter Sunday. Seeing the sun come through the church windows, hearing about it from the Bible."
But instead, unintentionally I had been very tired and remember sleeping or daydreaming (probably of a cute boy) through most of it...When I think of my understanding of Salvation, Death, Burial and Resurrection, it was by no means due to poor teaching or poor parenting or any one's "fault." The Spirit just hadn't drawn me to that degree at the time. And though I'm sure now, my faith will be tested and I will be reminded of my need for Jesus more and more. I now that the seed that lead to my faith in Him was planted and arranged by a God who is completely sovereign.
The Bible states in Daniel Chapter 4:
"His dominion is an eternal dominion;
his kingdom endures from generation to generation.
35 All the peoples of the earth
are regarded as nothing.
He does as he pleases
with the powers of heaven
and the peoples of the earth.
No one can hold back his hand
or say to him: “What have you done?”
There have been numerous times that I have doubted, and even denied where God was and why He would allow people to experience things that we do...I used to be accused of being a pessimist. I claimed and those tendencies were labeled by many "therapists" as survival or coping skills. I don't know how many people have told me in the past that I'm "too negative." After that further broke my heart and replaced that softness with calloused worthless tissue that is unable to sustain a pulse. I responded with something I thought was really clever like, "Hey, if you always assume and expect the worst case scenario, you are less likely to be let down." Sad now, but I was really proud of this during my gloomy, or what Richard calls my "Goth days". I like to call it self-centered sadness, I contemplated suicide often not because I wanted to die, but rather because I was wanting things to be different.
An Author Alice Seybold wrote in The Lovely Bones, "you cling to death, swinging out on it hoping to land you anywhere but where you are" When the world and the thoughts in your mind tell you that "you are just a/an (insult of choice)" and make you feel like dying would be better than experiencing more pain, that way of thinking lingers and can even seem attractive.
****I know now that that kind of thinking is not functional or in anyway beneficial to living, I was just a broken person looking to myself or anyone I could, to change where I was at the time. The problem was that every place I was looked for hope lead to destruction...which lead to hopelessness, despair. It wasn't until I looked to Jesus, not looking back, but really believing in His power to see me through circumstances. I can't say that I don't struggle and that I am by any means perfect...Ask anyone who has met me. But I have faith in a God who is, and has for many reasons the world denies, loves us, despite ourselves.
I encourage anyone who may have feelings like this to find or borrow a Bible, read it and regardless of how much you value or trust a person...don't take anyone person's word for it but the Lord himself. There is a Bible in nearly every hotel nightstand, bookstore and 24-hour store. They can't ask you to leave for gently checking it out while you're there( Ha ha, I know!) So if you happen to empty your gas tank with no direction, trying to clear your mind, park and go in the nearest Meijer or Walmart. You can meander the isles with a Bible and find some Truth. Seriously, pray, read you Bible. ( I'm reminding myself as well). People(except Jesus), no matter how "Perfect" or pious they seem are just fallen sinners in need of a Savior.
I like the way the Josh Wilson sings, "Finding peace is way too hard, when your looking in the dark.Shine, shine, shine on us. Oh God we need your love. These streets aren't bright enough. Oh Jesus shine on us"
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Thanks to our friend and Brother Nick this morning, who challenged us to consider if we have a "spirit of resurrection" It was the message he presented (inspired by the Spirit) this morning, that sparked the
lengthy self-look that inspired me to share the evidence of the Saving Grace of Jesus in my life.
Praise God for this experience and for blessing me with my patient, loving husband!
Sorry Richard for running us late trying to re-curl my hair...I should have known no one would see past the bags and puffiness of my eyes...Ha!